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Look him straight in the eyes and ask him, “Have you been looking at pornography? Whether he admits his sin or covers it up, remember as a girlfriend (and not a wife), he is not your project to fix. But complete and utter righteousness is God’s expectation for men and it should be yours as well.He is not your opportunity to grow patience and compassion. The last thing you need is to start your marriage repairing your husband’s fleshly indulgences.In other words, a twenty-something male raging with natural testosterone and a healthy sex drive, yet decides to postpone marriage by embracing a 2-3 year dating period followed up by the hesitancy of a proposal. Either he is a rare, incredibly cautious and self-controlled young man or he fits the statistics—meaning he’s releasing himself in front of a computer screen.Sadly, the latter seems to be the case for most relationships today.But a man who is determined to twist Scripture to vindicate his own desires is a dark valley for a woman to walk through.I don’t know about you, but I am highly skeptical of a Christian man who is perfectly content with a drawn-out relationship with a young woman.
The Bible is progressively becoming hate speech to the culture and our churches have taken note.For those who are paying attention, I’m sure you’re aware of the church’s recent increase in the avoidance of controversial topics and inconvenient passages of scripture.This dodge of difficult conversations combined with pastors who litter their sermons with phrases like, “What this scripture is really saying…” or “Remember, this instruction was for Christians over 2,000 years ago…” has left both men and women with two dilemmas: First, because many pastors have implied that the real truth of Scripture can’t be found in English but in the Greek and Hebrew, many Christians doubt if they are even capable of understanding their Bibles.We live in a time of male escape artists—men who are so incredibly proficient at explaining away the jurisdiction of Scripture and are finding ways to justify a variety of unbiblical behaviors that you, as a woman, must be capable of identifying.We mustn’t forget the words of Paul in 2 Timothy 4:3-4, “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables.” My instruction to Christian women is to search for a man who approaches the Word of God with reverence.